Conversations

So, I've been online dating for almost two years now and I'm learning new things about these specimens, the ones we call men, on a daily basis. Most, if not all, of my observations are somewhat banal, but nevertheless, useful. I read, as I am sure many women do too, on men's profiles that they seek a companion or person or woman with whom they would like to be able to have and sustain (intellectual and/or philosophical) conversations. That men wish to be able to have thoughtful and meaningful discussions may sound promising, but in reality, the men requesting such events are unable to begin or maintain such a conversation. Men aren't good conversationalists. True, we know this and we've known this to be fact for forever. Men don't want to share their feelings and they sure aren't going to be vulnerable and put themselves out there, which oddly enough, that is what the woman does and is expected to do in a sense. With that said, one would think online dating would be a perfect platform for all men, especially the ones that are fearful or anxious about starting up a conversation with women. Unfortunately, this doesn't seem to be the case. All too often I am messaged stupid lines of text that require zero thought. I've also come to recognize a copy-paste message among other effortless attempts to engage me in conversation, such as the ubiquitous one liner, "hey." Men who don't ask questions seem disinterested and uninterested, which leads me to believe my role as the woman seems to be ego-booster or immediate cure-for-boredom. Thoughts?

Free music and the best part is that it's legal!

I was googling my way around the Interweb the other week and came across a truly awesome (and amazing) website - noisetrade.com

You can download whatever you want for free, and you can even donate money to the artists if you love them that much. They have tons of great artists, it's unbelievable to see how many talented people there are.

All that is required of you is that you provide an email and zip code to get a download link. The music is in a zip file so it's super easy to add it to the iTunes library - or whatever you use.

Instant Coffee and Freshly Brewed Are Different

Instant coffee is tasty, but it's not the same as freshly brewed coffee. For example, I drank 12 ounces of instant coffee (regular) and I am still tired an hour after I finished it. Caffeine begins to kick in 45 minutes after taking,T therefore, I may conclude that instant coffee does not help with energy because it DID NOT do anything.

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